There is nothing more significant in life than unconditional love! Unconditional love is free of any expectations. It is love in its purist form.
Unconditional love from our parents is the most significant factor in our own ability to love ourselves fully! It would be a beautiful thing, if every single person was raised with and taught, unconditional love and self-ownership.
When we love ourselves unconditionally, we know and honor ourselves fully. We know how to say YES or NO to others, depending on what is correct for ourselves first and foremost. We know how to eat according to what is right for our own unique self. We know when to stretch ourselves to achieve our hearts desire when our energy is high and when to rest and allow ourselves to heal and rejuvenate when our energy is low. Our health at a psychological, emotional and physical level is balanced because we know and love ourselves fully. Self-awareness, Self-worth, and Self-knowledge are complete.
True unconditional love can heal all wounds on every level of our existence!
When we love ourselves unconditionally we give back to the world unconditionally without sacrificing our own unique SELF! To Love ourselves fully, means that we honor our own true self. In other words, we have a true sense of Self-Worth.
I have worked for a long time resolving my own armored layers of diseased states of mind. I have come to fully appreciate unconditional love, not only for myself but for another. I never fully understood what it meant to give or receive love until I had freed myself of a lot of unhealthy beliefs I had acquired.
The book, ‘The Velveteen Rabbit’ was my favorite book growing up. I never understood why until recently. Every great work of art, whether a painting, movie or book has the ability to resonate with our soul and spirit. When we resonate with a particular piece, it is because we relate to it emotionally and psychologically due to our own inner state. It brings certain thoughts and feelings to the surface of our consciousness so we can understand ourselves better.
As a Health Care Provider, nothing is more disheartening than to experience how so many individuals have no sense of self-worth or self-love. We live in a society of mainly material existence. We are only loved conditionally. As long as we act in a certain way, according to the mythical tenants laid out by some religion or belief system, than we can be loved. What a load of Crock!
Unconditional love is universal and always there for everyone to accept at any time, no questions asked! The key is in the choosing and accepting.
My wish is for everyone to learn to love themselves unconditionally. It can be a difficult thing to accept, especially if you have been taught from the day you where born that you do not deserve true self love.
So what I propose to those who feel they would like to be able to accept unconditional self love, is to take one small step each day towards it.
Every single day, wake up, go to your personal mirror, look at yourself in all sincerity and declare – “I love myself unconditionally!” I guarantee that for many it will be hard and will feel awkward and untrue at first. But for the sake of your own personal health, be willing to persevere.
The first time I did this exercise, I thought I was going to actually throw up, I felt so horrible saying it, like I was doing something so wrong. Which is crazy I know, but that is what I felt. Eventually that feeling gave way, and I became sad, and wanted to cry every time I said it, because I knew I didn’t believe it. I actually felt like I didn’t deserve it. Thankfully I persevered, and over time I began to accept and believe that I did deserve to love myself, because heck who else could or should love me so much!
Changing beliefs is one of the hardest things to do on your own. Finding help and guidance is also an important key. There are loads of people who are dedicating their lives, like myself, to helping as many people as we can, to reach this ultimate goal.
Some amazing Homeopathic/Tonic remedies that can also help to establish self worth are;
Aurum metallicum; For the individual who takes life way to seriously, only to discover that no matter how hard they try, they cannot make any one else happy. which cause the individual to become depressed with their life. The remedy will help them to strengthen their sense of self, thus, helping to enlighten them to the importance of themselves.
Anacardium; For those individuals who feel the need to prove themselves due to their inner feeling of inferiority and low self-esteem. In later stages these individuals find life completely overwhelming and are unable to make any true life decisions.
Lycopodium; For the individual who needs to belittle others in order to make themselves feel better. The classic bully or the victim of bullying if raised in an extreme peace keeping home! Problems with low confidence and self-esteem, which leads them to withdraw from life to cope.
Baryta carbonica: These individuals are shy, need constant reassurance and are generally delayed in development due to their lack of self-confidence. There is a great deal of inferiority which also leads to great fear and anxiety, leading even further in to their shyness.
As always when working with homeopathic/tonic remedies for mental, emotional issues, it is best to start with either a 200 ch or 1M then work up to higher potencies slowly as you feel ready to dig deeper at this issue. As long as a remedy appears to be working, stay with the same potency until it feels like the state is creeping up on you again, then go one step higher, or deeper. If the remedy does not seem to be helping at all then find another one that you feel suits you. Remember, homeopathic remedies used from a 12 ch up cannot create any new issue like conventional medicine. If you feel an aggravation it is due to the remedy actually shifting your inner state that you may not be ready to let go of yet, so simply stop the remedy for a while and let your soul rest!
Finding your own self-worth and unconditional love of self can be a scary and difficult journey, but one well worth taking. Be patient with yourself during the ups and downs of self discovery. Rome was not built in a day!
Hopefully this blog has given you some things to think about, regarding your own journey of self healing. If so, please let me know. : )
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In True Resonant Health,
Have a glorious week,